Episode 3: Fearless Stewardship: Trusting God With Big Investments in Your Calling
Overcoming Fear, Failure, and Finances: Embracing Radical Stewardship
In this episode, we discuss the significant obstacles that prevent many from pursuing their dreams: fear, failure, and finances. The key to overcoming these challenges lies in embracing the biblical principle of stewardship. Reflecting on personal experiences from the 2019 pandemic, the host emphasizes that true stewardship involves trusting God's provision and surrendering personal ambitions to Him. Exploring the balance between risk and stability, listeners are encouraged to take action on their dreams, seek wisdom through experience, and align their unique talents with God's purpose. The episode also introduces the importance of building a faith-driven brand and previews the next episode on distinguishing between purpose and popularity.
00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Obstacles to Pursue Your Dreams
00:40 Understanding Stewardship: A Biblical Perspective
01:25 Personal Journey: From Stability to True Stewardship
02:48 Balancing Dreams and Responsibilities
03:38 Confessions of a Knowledge Addict
04:21 The Importance of Action Over Knowledge
04:41 Stewardship in the Pageant World
05:54 Building Your Brand: Strategies for Success
06:44 Conclusion: Trusting God with Your Success
07:02 Next Episode Preview: Purpose vs. Popularity
Transcript
What would it feel like to
radically pursue your goals today?
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:We all have dreams we hope will come
true one day, but there are three major
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:things that often hold us back, and
that's fear, failure, and finances.
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:Unfortunately, these three obstacles
stop many people from fully pursuing
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:their dreams, causing them to abandon
the very calling God has given them.
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:However, there's a biblical principle
that can transform the way we approach
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:these challenges, called stewardship.
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:And many of us in the Christian
circle have heard this term before.
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:But what does it really mean to
be a good steward of our time,
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:talents, money, and resources?
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:I've thought a lot about this over the
past few years, and I'll tell you that
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:my perspective on stewardship shifted
ically during the pandemic in:
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:For many of us, the events
that happened that year made it
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:impossible to ignore the reality that
everything in the world is temporary.
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:Rapid loss and change forced
us to face this truth head on.
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:And at that time, I was working as an
analyst for an options trading company.
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:And just before the lockdowns,
I was struggling with a
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:personal identity crisis.
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:I was raised in a middle class family,
and I had been taught that the clear path
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:to success was to go to college, get a
degree in a stable field, and work for a
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:company long enough to secure retirement.
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:My father, who is an engineer, also
made it clear that I should avoid
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:risky paths like art or fashion.
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:And this advice shaped my belief that
risk was inherently a bad thing and
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:would inevitably lead to failure.
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:And the indirect result of this
belief was that I started equating
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:predictability with success.
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:Now imagine how shattering it was
when I realized that the career
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:I had chosen, though stable, was
something that I absolutely hated.
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:And what I've learned is that stability
alone doesn't lead to good stewardship.
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:True stewardship comes from trusting
that, with God's provision, you can
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:live without fear of the future.
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:And when circumstances change,
Christ remains the only constant,
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:and you can trust that He will
never leave or forsake you.
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:If you've made it this far into the
podcast, you're probably a dreamer who
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:has a complicated relationship with risk.
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:It's something that's consistent in your
life, but it brings a great deal of guilt.
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:You have big dreams you want
to pursue, but you also have
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:loved ones in your life who are
affected by the risk that you take.
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:Maybe you've even questioned whether God
has called you to do something beyond
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:your current circumstances or if your
ambition truly has a place in his plan.
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:And I'm here to tell you that God
wants to see every gift and talent he
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:is giving you for his purpose, but you
must surrender your ambition to him.
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:I have a confession.
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:I am a recovering hustler
and knowledge addict.
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:Every time I see a new course
or shiny program, I feel an
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:overwhelming urge to buy it.
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:And so it's no surprise that I've spent
over 20k on courses, coaches, and online
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:learning programs in the past two years.
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:I love to learn, but God
challenged me this past year on
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:my constant craving for knowledge.
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:I realized I was spending
more time learning how to do
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:something than actually doing it.
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:And here's the truth.
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:Knowledge comes from knowing,
but wisdom comes from doing.
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:It's only when you challenge yourself
to take action on your dreams that you
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:gain the confidence to steward them well.
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:And in the pageant world, having a
list of accolades and degrees is often
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:seen as essential for your success.
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:But is that really what it
means to be a good steward?
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:In Colossians 3, 23, we're reminded
that whatever you do, Work heartedly,
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:as for the Lord, and not for men.
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:And to me, this means that being
a good steward is about seeking
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:to please God through your
work, not the people around you.
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:Because God isn't concerned with whether
you have a master's degree, a fancy title,
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:or thousands of followers on Instagram.
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:He's looking at your heart, and how
you surrender your success to Him.
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:And don't get me wrong, there's nothing
wrong with being educated or ambitious.
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:In fact, these are desires
that come from God.
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:And everything you do is meant
to give you wisdom through
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:experience and bring Him the glory.
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:The experience you gain in pageants is a
great asset in the entrepreneurial world.
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:But here's the real question.
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:How much do you value your own brand?
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:I've observed that many women in
the pageant world rely heavily
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:on securing sponsorships and
donations to fund their ventures.
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:And while that approach works for
some, I believe a more effective
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:strategy is to leverage the skills and
experiences you've gained from pageantry
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:to position yourself for success.
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:Relying too much on one monetization
strategy can cause you to overlook
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:more effective methods for growth.
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:And from my experience consulting
pageant women on brand building.
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:It's about finding what aligns with
your unique strengths and calling,
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:and that requires deeper exploration.
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:Brand building is a continuous process.
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:It's only when you trust that God
is more invested in your success
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:than you are, that you'll discover
the path to fearless stewardship.
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:So stop idolizing the outcome
and start being obedient to
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:what God is calling you to do.
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:In an episode four of this podcast
trailer series, we are going to talk
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:about the difference between purpose
and popularity, and the key to building
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:a meaningful faith driven brand.